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Friday, November 4, 2016

Victorian Mourning Etiquette

Everyone was born. Everyone eventually dies. Every culture has its methods of celebrating, acknowledging, and properly managing both. In the Victorian-era United States, many of the traditions surrounding the mourning period came directly from mother England. After all, emigrants brought their attitudes, practices, and ideas of propriety with them.

STAY HOME!

The Ladies' and Gentlemens' Etiquette: A Complete Manual of the Manners and Dress of American Society by Mrs. E. B. (Eliza Bisbee) Duffey, published in 1877 in Philadelphia by Porter and Coates.

NO VISITING

The Ladies' and Gentlemens' Etiquette: A Complete Manual of the Manners and Dress of American Society by Mrs. E. B. (Eliza Bisbee) Duffey, published in 1877 in Philadelphia by Porter and Coates.

WHICH HOUSES ARE IN MORNING?

The Ladies' and Gentlemens' Etiquette: A Complete Manual of the Manners and Dress of American Society by Mrs. E. B. (Eliza Bisbee) Duffey, published in 1877 in Philadelphia by Porter and Coates.

NOTICES

The Ladies' and Gentlemen's Etiquette: A Complete Manual of the Manners and Dress of American Society by Mrs. E. B. (Eliza Bisbee) Duffey, published in 1877 in Philadelphia by Porter and Coates, excerpts from page 216 - 217.

Then as now, newspaper announcements mark the passing of young and old. As do notification of next-of-kin, whether done via mail or telegraph by family members or those in charge (such as the attorney who contacted Felicity Percival before Courting Miss Cartwright begins. Little did she know, her father had lived a few hundred miles from her, but she'd never known so much as his name. Interested to see how she takes it? Read the first two scenes, in their entirety, with the "Look Inside" feature on Amazon.com or the opening scene within a blog article (that introduced this novella when it debuted within the 90-day long 1st page bestselling western historical romance anthology, Cowboys and Calico).


Stationery marketed specifically for mourning, announcements or condolences. Montgomery Ward and Co Catalog, 1895, p 112.

The Ladies' and Gentlemen's Etiquette: A Complete Manual of the Manners and Dress of American Society by Mrs. E. B. (Eliza Bisbee) Duffey, published in 1877 in Philadelphia by Porter and Coates.

LIVE (and die) WITHIN YOUR MEANS

PERIOD OF MOURNING

The Ladies' and Gentlemen's Etiquette: A Complete Manual of the Manners and Dress of American Society by Mrs. E. B. (Eliza Bisbee) Duffey, published in 1877 in Philadelphia by Porter and Coates.

BLACK CLOTHING

Though Queen Victoria was not monarch to United States citizens, most idealized her fashion statements, her expectations and behavior (etiquette). If Queen Victoria wore black to mourn lost loved ones, so did Americans with the means to do so. [Mrs. Duffey's etiquette book explains in detail how we cannot separate ourselves from our English roots and English etiquette.]

This photograph shows "Queen Victoria with the five surviving children of her daughter, Princess Alice, dressed in mourning clothing for their mother and their sister Princess Marie in early 1879." Image: Public Domain. Source: Wikipedia, which further explains, "Princess Irene, kneeling on the left, with her grandmother Queen Victoria and, from left to right, her sister Elizabeth, brother Ernst-Ludwig, sister Victoria and, seated on the floor, her sister Alix in February 1879, two months after the death of her mother."

This second photograph of the royal princesses (1862) shows "Victoria's five daughters (Alice, Helena, Beatrice, Victoria and Louise), photographed wearing mourning black beneath a bust of their late father, Prince Albert (1862)." Image: Public Domain. Source: Wikipedia.

"In Britain, black is the colour traditionally associated with mourning for the dead. The customs and etiquette expected of men, and especially women, were rigid during much of the Victorian era. The expectations depended on a complex hierarchy of close or distant relationship with the deceased. The closer the relationship, the longer the mourning period and the wearing of black." [Source]

MOURNING ATTIRE

These two 1898 artist's rendition of Mourning is from Harper's Bazaar (originally had one a: Bazar)(1867-1898), page 291.

The image that follows further explains from Harper's Bazaar the fashion of mourning attire, including fabric selections, accoutrements such as veils, jackets, ribbons, collars, and cuffs.

Note the alternate historic spelling of today's "cr ê pe" as "crape". Wikipedia shows an image of an historic "mourning bonnet in hard crape". (This image verifies the historic spelling as well as provides an excellent image of this fabric for recognition purposes.)

Mourning Attire 1898. Snapshot of text on p 291 of Harper's Bazaar 1867-1898

Note: Gray is was not appropriate for initial mourning. Mrs. E.B. Duffey made that quite clear:

The Ladies' and Gentlemens' Etiquette: A Complete Manual of the Manners and Dress of American Society by Mrs. E. B. (Eliza Bisbee) Duffey, published in 1877 in Philadelphia by Porter and Coates.

BLACK ARM BANDS

"In some cultures, a black armband signifies that the wearer is in mourning or wishes to identify with the commemoration of a family friend, comrade or team member who has died. This use is particularly common in the first meeting following the loss of a member." [Source]

Note the black armband worn over Rocky Gideon's sleeve on the cover of Courting Miss Cartwright. (I didn't intentionally choose this...but my cover designer (and author) Charlene Raddon of Silver Sage Book Covers had read the story and knew exactly the circumstances my characters found themselves in. Two points for Charlene!)

MOURNING JEWELRY


Mourning Jewelry made of jet, for sale in the Sears, Roebuck & Co. Catalogue No. 104 of 1897, pp 436.

Did you note the jet ear drops worn by Queen Victoria's daughters and granddaughters in the mourning family photographs shown earlier?

MOURNING BUTTONS

Mourning Buttons for sale in the Sears, Roebuck & Co. Catalogue No 104 of 1897.Also made of jet, these black buttons with lever backs were added to shirts made (intentionally) without buttons (much like the use of cuff links to 'button' a double button-hole in French-cuff men's dress shirts of today).

CEMETERY FENCING

In an article I posted about the Victorian-era historic pioneer cemetery in Silver City, Idaho, I shared photographs I took of headstones surrounded by cemetery fencing. Pay attention next time you're in a 19th century cemetery--I imagine you'll see similar fencing setting off family plots.

Cemetery fencing for sale in the 1895 Montgomery, Ward, & Co Spring and Summer Catalogue.

BUT IN THE OLD WEST?

Most of the customs surrounding mourning and loss of loved ones, in the Old West, was dictated by availability, the demands of scraping an existence out of mines, farms, ranches, or the great Trail west. Women didn't always wear mourning fashions--because one of their two dresses likely wasn't mourning crêpe. Those on a homestead might keep weeds pulled and flowers watered--if circumstances allowed, but weren't likely to plant a purchased fence (but might scrape together enough time to build a picket fence to keep the stock from trampling the burial plots). Once the train brought "civilization", many if not all of these niceties were practiced as much as possible. Women brought a settling refinement to the Wild West, and once towns had a church, a school, and enough women, such niceties were expected.

THEN CONTRASTED TO NOW

Things have definitely changed. I attend a funeral in a black suit or simply my Sunday dress. Even when losing my beloved father-in-law, my culture doesn't dictate I wear mourning black, refrain from social events, or otherwise ensure all who see me know I'm grieving his loss.

Pioneer and frontier women were tough. They had to be. Life went on, work waited for no man (or woman), and myriad duties awaited.

In the case of Felicity Percival (Courting Miss Cartwright), she's an outsider in a town that loved the minister who'd been a fixture in their lives for many years. To lose him to a lingering illness was a blow to the whole community. But what about the daughter who'd never met him, hadn't any idea what he looked like, or why he'd summoned her home? I couldn't imagine how this young woman would feel or the weight of unanswered questions she carried. That was one of the sparks of "What If" that set off the course of discovery in developing Felicity Percival Cartwright (and eventually, Gideon)'s story. Have you read it yet? If not, now's a great time to pick up the kindle edition. The low introductory price of $0.99 won't last long! It's been on preorder for $0.99 since October 1, 2016 and will increase to the regular price of $2.99 on Monday, November 7th.

Used paperbacks (Harper's Bazaar) from $1.26 (+ $3.99 shipping)

Used paperbacks (Ladies' and Gentlemen's Etiquette)

Mrs. Duffey explains ever so much more about properly conducting oneself at this difficult time of life. She covers "Exhibition of the Corpse", "After the Funeral", "At the Funeral" and so much more.

Find Mrs. E.B. Duffey's The Ladies' and Gentlemen's Etiquette: A Complete Manual of the Manners and Dress of American Society (1877):

Did you find any of this American history surrounding the customs (and etiquette) of mourning to be surprising? Please scroll down and reply. We'd love to carry on the conversation.

Hi! I'm Kristin Holt, USA Today Bestselling Author.

I write frequent articles (or view recent posts easily on my Home Page, scroll down) about the nineteenth century American west–every subject of possible interest to readers, amateur historians, authors…as all of these tidbits surfaced while researching for my books. I also blog monthly at Sweet Americana Sweethearts (first Friday of each month) and Romancing the Genres (third Tuesday of each Month).

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Friday, August 5, 2016

Speaking Trumpet: The Bullhorn of the 19th Century, by Kristin Holt

by Kristin Holt

Before loudhailers (1950), bullhorns (1950), or megaphones (late 1890's), the device public speakers, public servants, officials at sporting events, etc. used in order to be heard:

Speaking Trumpets (~ 1650)

Brass Speaking Trumpet

"As more American volunteer fire fighting companies began to form during the late 18th century, a need emerged for better organized efforts to combat conflagrations. Engineers and officers would use “speaking trumpets” to amplify their voices over the noise and commotion of a fire scene to direct the company in effectively fighting the blaze.

Presentation Style 1859

"Two trumpet variants are reflected in the collection: plain and functional “working” trumpets that were actively used at fires, and highly decorated “presentation” trumpets. Presentation trumpets were awarded to firefighters in honor of their service, or between fire companies during visits, competitions, and musters.

"This brass trumpet dates to the 19th century. The shiny and polished horned is plain and unadorned, but shows scratches and dents from use." [Source: Smithsonian, National Museum of American History]

The brass speaking trumpet (image from the Smithsonian National Museum of American History) measures 12 inches by 4.5 inches.

The highly decorative speaking trumpet is an American Coin Silver Fireman's Speaking Trumpet, image from Heritage Auctions, Bailey & Co., Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.

A closeup of the decorative mid-section of the trumpet shows the engraving from 1859.

Closeup of Engraving

While writing my newest release, Courting Miss Cartwright, a novella contained within Cowboys & Calico--an anthology of five sweet western historical romances--I researched Speaking Trumpets.

I wrote a scene where virtually everyone in town had gathered 'round a platform to participate in the Picnic Basket Auction to raise money for the Church Organ Fund. The crowd was loud. The officiator called for bids. Midst the laughter, good-natured ribbing of the hero (Rocky Gideon), and surprised exclamations, I realized pretty quick I needed a bullhorn. Or a megaphone, at minimum.

My 1879 setting could not allow a microphone. I knew P.A. systems were out of the question, but who knew megaphones weren't designed nor called such until the mid 20th century? Some readers might not find historical inaccuracies a distraction, but many readers do. I do.

I crave historical accuracy. So I put a speaking trumpet in the event official's hand and put him to work using it. The scene takes place in my heroine (Felicity Cartwright)'s point of view, so to make the likely unfamiliar term make sense to twenty-first century readers who know bullhorns and megaphones but likely never heard of a speaking trumpet, I showed its purpose, appearance, and Felicity's familiarity with it.

This picnic basket auction scene occurs just one chapter from the ending, with some significant U-turns in the story, so I don't want to give too much away. But you can read the first third of that scene in my blog post: A Victorian Picnic Basket…worth $7.50? (And a peek inside Courting Miss Cartwright). This post about picnic baskets and the import of picnics in Victorian recreation and courtship doesn't give too much away nor spoil the story. Note: $7.50 in 1879 more or less equivalent to $178.57 today. WHO spends nearly $180 on a picnic lunch?

See post on KristinHolt.com

I'll introduce you to some of the key players in the opening scene of Courting Miss Cartwright. Four people, well, five, if we count the deceased father. 1-- Father. 2-- W.W. Stuart (Father's attorney), 3-- Felicity Percival [Cartwright](heroine), 4-- Rocky Gideon (hero), and 5-- Temperance Cartwright (heretofore unknown half-sister). One of them pays $7.50 in 1879 dollars for Felicity's picnic basket. And I'll give you one hint: Felicity doesn't buy her own.


See post on KristinHolt.com with entire opening scene

This set of Sweet Western Historical Romance Novellas was released last Saturday, July 30th. You'll find my contribution nestled in the middle of four well-loved authors: Amelia C. Adams, Cassie Hayes, Margery Scott, and Kirsten Osbourne. As of 8-3-16, the anthology has an overall average of 4.9 stars from 25 reviews on Amazon.

Yes, it's an inexpensive set. Five NEW novellas for $0.20 each. Twenty cents! And it's a FREE READ with a kindleunlimited subscription.

But I still want to give away TWO copies, one each to two lucky winners! All you need do to enter this FREE BOOK give-away is to reply to this blog post within 24 hours of its publication (From 12:00 AM on Friday, August 5th to 11:59 PM on Friday, August 5th--all PDT).

In your reply, simply let me know what you think about Speaking Trumpets. Kind of cool that they're historically accurate? Have a hard time believing they work as well as a cheerleader-style Megaphone? Like the collector's item silver decorative one pictured in this post? Write something.

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Kristin Holt, USA Today Bestselling Author writes Sweet Victorian Romance set in the American West. She writes frequent articles about the nineteenth century American west--every subject of possible interest to readers and amateur historians. She contributes monthly to Sweet Americana Sweethearts (first Friday of each month) and Romancing the Genres (third Tuesday of each month).